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<title><![CDATA[爱情vs事业，熟轻熟重？[原创]]]></title> 
<author>张宴 &lt;net@s135.com&gt;</author>
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<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2005 06:04:56 +0000</pubDate> 
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	　　当在爱情与事业之间不得不做出一个选择时，你们会选哪一个呢？爱情？事业？<br/>　　Wings在院学生会中是我所在部门的头儿，一个学习、管理、写作、新闻采编、汽车驾驶等各方面都比较出众的女生，比我高一届。上学期写学生会学期工作计划时候，我忙着写计划，她也忙着部门的事，我写完后给她看，她觉得字数太少了点，让我补充一点。我说：“姐姐辛苦了，补充的内容你就帮着写一点吧。”她说：“看姐姐这么辛苦，你都不知道分担分担。”最后，计划的补充内容还是自己写，自己想捡便宜没捡到，反而被她捡了个便宜，她以后叫我就变成了“小老弟”了。没办法，就这样稀里糊涂地认了个姐姐，不过也算是件高兴的事吧，我们在学生会将近一年的工作中一直合作得很愉快。<br/>　　Wings有个很好的男朋友，每次我在路上碰见他们俩，他们都是边说边笑着，感觉起来是多么地温馨、恩爱。昨天晚上在QQ上碰到她，我聊到了她的男朋友。她说她现在成了孤苦伶仃的一个人，我说我不解。她说就是他们现在这一年先把感情放放，等考上研究生再说。我笑道：“你们这是为了长远着想，为了将来能够永远在一起，是不是？”她说：“不是，我觉得我和他基本上是不可能了，尤其是如果我们都考上研究生。因为我们不在同一个地方。”我更不解，对她说他们考同一个城市的大学不就可以在一起了吗。她说，他们的志向不在一起！<br/>　　爱情vs事业，面对现实，有时候不得不只选其一。她和他，都有着各自不同的事业理想，在爱情、事业难两全的时候，他们选择了后者。<br/>　　我想，他们的选择也许是明智的，因为爱情并不掌握在自己的手中，但事业可以凭自己的本事去掌握！<br/>　　最后，祝福姐姐考研成功，实现志向！
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	那位姐姐也厉害啊，真的觉得牛人旁边多牛人。圈子很重要，更重要的是把自己变成圈子中的人
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